omen today are breaking barriers, challenging stereotypes, and carving their paths in various spheres of life. While the journey towards independence is empowering, it also comes with its set of challenges and complexities.
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Something that has been on my mind as of late, is the idea of sexuality, class and how these two notions inform the general publics (or as we might affectionally refer to them, ‘civilians’) opinion of sex workers sexuality. While sexuality is a fundamental aspect of human identity, it is persistently othered as taboo. Recent times have seen a rise in the acceptance of sex positivity and empowerment narratives when it comes to female sexuality. Now, this is an area that I have somewhat of an expertise in (I’m sure you’re shocked to hear this…)
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A common thing to come across in the world of professional companionship is kink in all of its glorious forms. BDSM, an acronym for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism, is a complex and diverse spectrum of sexual practices and dynamics. At its core, BDSM relies on trust, communication, and consent. This is where many people neglect the deeper, more emotive aspects of the practice.
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I’ve been thinking about labels recently. The label of GFE as an experience feels somehow wrong to me, it just isn’t sitting quite right. Bit of a hot take, I know, but I’ve come to mostly dislike it in pertaining to the relationships I have with clients. Now I need to preface this with the statement that this is MY opinion and only MY feeling on the topic.
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It’s a tale as old as time. Your teenage first love, a lanky boy with too much gel in his hair (arguably any gel is too much), leads you into his bedroom. He switches the lights on, and you immediately are transported to the stark ambience of a Primark store. Your heart pounding as you look on at your dream boy, he approaches his CD player (yes, I’m technically old now). A moment later, the dulcet tones of Eminems ‘Kill You’ fill the room. You are wooed, and it won’t be until several years later you look back and think, “What the hell was he doing?!”
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I got to a point in my career some years ago where it became clear that being a one woman army wasn’t going to cut it, if I wanted to maintain my sanity. While driven and smart, i got to a place in which doing everything on my own had become a burden. To feel burdened by logistics and admin and scheduling was not exactly my dream in pursuing professional companionship. I am one of the lucky few who adores my work. Enter: Elizabeth.
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While I’m not usually one for fiction, I’m going to ask that you indulge me for a moment here. I might not spend so much time reading fiction, but I certainly am guilty as charged for writing it. In my head, of course. I figured I’d share a little of that here with you, should you care to read.
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I get nervous when I make phone calls. I’m told it’s a millennial thing, the sheer panic when seeing the dreaded voicemail notification pop up on my iPhone. Will I listen? Maybe. Will I ignore that the simple request for a call back as it sits in my inbox for eternity, remembering it only to feel momentarily anxious before I forget about it again? Also maybe. Honestly, almost certainly.
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You’ll have to excuse me for a moment while I indulge myself. Very sorry in advance. Truly. You see the past year has been, for all of us, an extended exercise in managing isolation, navigating distance and as a result, getting in touch with ourselves. Some of us may have done the latter more than others. Speaking for myself… I’ve managed to really deepen that very important relationship. I’ve had the most insightful conversations with myself, I’ve taken myself on long, romantic walks. I’ve done one or two other things with myself that have been so profoundly enjoyable I daren’t repeat here. A lady never tells, after all.
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